This morning I had just put Ben down for his morning nap and Ryan came in and said he was going to run to Sonic to get a drink. I said- "Ohhhh, why don't you take Addy Tate and she can play on that playground there". I hadn't had a shower and a quite house to myself seemed like a wonderful idea! There is actually this really cool playground at the Sonic on 1187 that I have been wanting to take Addyson to, but just never have. I thought this was the perfect opportunity. ;)
Ryan agreed and I told Addyson, who was so super excited, and off they went! I showered, got ready and they still were not back. I started cleaning out our closet (which is a huge mess with just random stuff on the floor- Addyson likes to play in there) and finished that. They were not back yet. Okay, I thought, they must be having a really fun time! I went into Addyson's room and started cleaning out her closet. Oh the things you can get accomplished with no kiddos hanging on you, needing something, crying, etc! After about 5 minutes of being in her closet I heard the garage go up. Seconds later I hear the door open, Addyson SC-REEEEAAAAM-ING her head off, Ryan in a firm but calm voice saying "Get in your room NOW". I, of course, ran in to see what in the world was wrong. I thought she had been hurt or something with the way she was screaming. Apparently that was not the case.....
Addyson has had a case of the extremely stubborn 3 year old lately and a case of the I'm not listening to anything you say right now! At Sonic there apparently were 2 eight year old boys who were being wild and crazy and jumping off the top of this 20 foot slide. Of course, Addyson wanted to follow suit and Ryan would not let her. Thank you Ryan, good daddy choice there! Secondly, there was a big sand pit, AKA mud hole after the rain this week and Addyson REALLY and I mean R-E-A-L-L-Y wanted to play in that. She asked 50 times (according to Ryan) "Can I play in the sand pit" over and over again. Ryan said he was very calm and explained to her, "No, it is all mud in there and we are not going to play in the mud right now, let's go and play on this big slide over here." Good job again Ryan, divert the attention to something else!
Well, apparently this didn't go over so well because it caused a MAJOR melt-down at the Sonic playground. He said this went on for about 20 minutes because he was really trying to be patient and let her play but she kept coming back to the sand pit. Then he said he gave her the choice of "You can either play on the big fun playground or we can go home". She chose to go home and so Ryan said "okay- let's go", picked her up as she was apparently kicking and screaming and being "that kid" at the playground. Ryan said other Sonic-goers were looking at him like he was abducting a kid from the playground as he shoved her in the car. Kicking the back of Ryan's seat and screaming continued the whole way home and that brought me to when they walked in our door. It breaks my heart to see her so upset like that and Ryan was concerned that she was possessed and he said (and I think he was being serious!) that he was just waiting for her head to start spinning around. I said- Welcome to a big 3 year old tantrum! Kids don't understand why they can't do something- she just saw a puddle of mud and thought it looked fun to play in, not for once thinking that hmm, I'll ruin my clothes, get the inside of the car all dirty, mom will have to take my car seat out of the car and completely wash it out, etc. Kids don't think about that stuff and so it is hard for them to understand why they can't play in the mud. Thus, causing a major meltdown.
Ryan was all worn out, but also suprisingly calm, when he got home and he said in a half-way defeated voice "I just wanted a coke". Ha- sounds like daddy-daughter play date didn't go so well!